Hey guys,

here is a very good article from Troy on how the whole concept of Approach anxiety works and how the typical classical pickup methods (CPMs) actually take your focus off the the solution to this “problem”. Troy has a good point about AA being a good instrument for CPMs to keep you hooked on their products. Every form of anxiety or fear clouds your judgement and this is used to actually distract you from a very simple solution to this manufactured problem:

1. Being the most interesting guy you can be, with a life you can bring her into and knowing about your strengths.

2. Knowing how to, and being able to make an interaction sexual when you are interested in her.

For all you natural vibe guys out there: It comes down to one of the simple formulas of my bootcamps: ACE (Abundance Mindset and having Abundance in your Lifestyle, Confidence and the Ability for sexual Escalation!)

Enjoy Troy’s article:

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Yes, I said it. It’s NOT REAL, and its made specifically to give you tunnel vision and to make these pick up guru dudes make millions of dollars over lost students who practice their shit for years and not get laid. Its designed and talked about for YOU to continue to not have a clue.

Let me reiterate that TDD is all about awareness, and positioning ourselves to get picked up by the women we want. We don’t have any linear equations in mind, matter of fact we hardly do more than 2-3 approaches a night max. But in the end, we get the maximum result. Our PI student this weekend (expect review in a week) had more results in 3 days EVER compared to a year of hardcore practicing what he learned from a THREE THOUSAND DOLLAR no-infield, no-lifestyle approach, no-awareness boot camp. Wow.

But shit, everyone already knows that about TDD so let me go back to this big yahoo of an issue called approach anxiety.

First off, let me be straight up here: Walking up to a woman or a group, with absolutely NOTHING, causes anxiety. My best analogy for that is walking into a deep dark forest without a damn map. Who wants to walk into a forest without a map???? Well generally that’s how it feels: Like going to battle without a sword, or making the presidential speech without the document in hand.

Pretty fucking obvious right? Well that’s how it really feels. I myself would feel lost, scared, and helpless! Because the scam of the pick up world says that you can HAVE NOTHING, and with some superior $3,000 ++ “Black Mirror Technique” (How many people got scammed with that?) IT IS POSSIBLE!!!!!!!!!!

Okay, I’m done with the mocking mode. I’ve done too much of that with my student this weekend because it really is dumb. Well, lets enumerate the “nothings” so that most of you guys listening can get a fresher perspective

a) NOTHING meaning NO LIFE to bring a woman into. You live in a cave, reading pick up theory, hardly interact, and have a shit social network. OF COURSE you would get anxious walking up to an insanely pretty girl in a bookstore, with absolutely no life to bring her into! Of course! Shit i would get nervous. Why do you think we spend literally 4 hours on our bootcamps teaching our students on lifestyle, social networking, pipelining, etc. Now what guru who really comes from that experience (oh that’s right, they all started weird) can teach those? NOBODY! Because they don’t live that life! What dating company has a three-week event called the LIFESTYLE RETREAT?

b) NOTHING meaning NO AWARENESS of the social situation and the context of your approach. How does the social situation develop throughout the night? What is she doing there and what is the general vibe or mood of the group? Why do you think we’re all about awareness??? At TDD we’re all about awareness and have FOUR awareness frameworks: I. Awareness of SELF II. Awareness of the Dynamic Between Men and Women and Escalating that Dynamic and III. Awareness of Social Situations and IV. Lifestyle. Believe me when i say when you’ve mastered these, its on fucking lock down.

c) NOTHING meaning you are NOT READY to even escalate romantically or sexually. You are not “set in your head” on what sex is and the realities of a sexual relationship. Shit, you might still be the moral high horse nice guy fella who thinks sex is bad. If you are one of those hobbyist, chit chat people whose best friend is a computer, well the best way to gain friends is to just immerse yourself in different social networks, but if you WANT TO GET A GIRLFRIEND or GET LAID, better get your shit straightened out and realize that FRIENDS and LOVERS are different. Are you ready for the LOVER part of your life to begin? I’ll leave that up to you readers out there.

What even sucks is that these stupid PUA CD’s and Videos and what not, will force you to think even NARROWER: that its justlack of practice, that its the NUMBER of approaches (Goddamn), and that u need more of them to be absolutely positively great with women….WITHOUT the things i just mentioned above.WITHOUT AWARENESS, WITHOUT A LIFE, and WITHOUT your SEXUAL or ROMANTIC INTENTIONS IN PLACE.

To be honest, you’d need a miracle. Well then there’s your other option: keep doing hundreds of approaches until your pupils turn white and you have a seizure figuring this stuff out. Another one would be to buy the next $400 megalomaniac approach DVD set guaranteed to relieve yourself of your anxieties. Or you could be like some idiot I know who tried to self-hypnotize himself. (Guess what, he’s an even bigger weirdo now)

To me, who’s been there for a long ass time and watching this scam work, its just ridiculous.

It’s manufactured, its created to get you lost, if you’re intention is to get trapped in that matrix, then I seriously have no sympathy for you and you should not ever come back to TDD. You’re a buffoon.

Troy Dizon